I want people to know my friend Carolyn is amazing at her job, but more than that, I want people to know the stuff inside her that makes her a great friend. The stuff that makes you want to stand by her at a party, in hopes that her thoughtful observations and quick wit rub might off on you. Let’s stop introducing the people we love based solely on what they do, who they cash their checks from, or what’s on their twitter profiles. Let’s instead start reminding them of who they are.
A fog is no good, especially if you’re a leader. People need you to have clarity, to know what the priorities are, to know where they fit in the mission and to be encouraged and reminded all the time. So, every few months (not on schedule, more like whenever the fog sets in) I step over to the white board and clarify everything I’m doing. Amazingly, when I’m done, life no longer feels complicated and all goals seem reasonable.
Our fears lead us to lonely and crazy places. We often run from the wrong things. Sometimes we end up fighting ridiculous battles against imagined enemies. Often what we fight or evade are the very things destined to bless us.
Discovering Your Calling Won’t Make You Whole
Why You Can’t Seem to Find Your Willpower
Why Being Vulnerable is Leaving You Lonely
The Character Trait That Pleased Jesus
Finding Your Voice Doesn’t Happen Overnight
What I Learned From a Funeral I Haven’t Attended Yet
Grappling with Control and the Fear of Dying
Getting Over My Guilt About Not Doing Christian Ministry
You Don’t Have to Make Your Bed to Write a Book