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The Single Most Powerful Question You Can Ask

Donald Miller

by Donald Miller

When novelists sit down to write a narrative, there is a question they ask themselves in order to create exciting and meaningful stories, and that same question can also create a more exciting and meaningful life. That question is: “What if?”

J.R.R. Tolkien once asked the question “What if” there existed a place called Middle Earth, and “What if” Middle Earth were under threat? 

Every good story begins with some form of this question, and so does every life.

Whenever a novel starts to drag, the writer simply has to ask this question, and suddenly life gets exciting again.

Photo Credit: Amanda Tipton, Creative Commons

Photo Credit: Amanda Tipton, Creative Commons

“What if” there were a car accident, “what if” my protagonist won the lottery, what if my protagonist came home and his wife had left with all the furniture? A series of these questions will dislodge whatever fascinating thing is going to happen next in the story.

It works in life, too.

Now to be sure, you don’t have the power to win the lottery and I don’t recommend getting in a car wreck, but within limits, the question What if? can radically change our story and our lives.

Several years ago, I asked the question, “What if the 360,000 churches in America could each have a mentoring program”, and out of that question came one of the most exciting adventures in my life, The Mentoring Project.

Bill Hybles once asked “What if” there were a church in this field? Rick Warren asked “What if” we could bring peace to the continent of Africa? Out of these questions came stories that have positively affected millions.

“What if” you asked yourself a series of these questions?

“What if” you got out a yellow pad and wrote down a few story turns that you could engage?

  • “What if” you ran a marathon?
  • “What if” you renewed your marriage vows?
  • “What if” you quit your job?
  • “What if” you brought home a puppy today?
  • “What if” you and your family adopted a child?

If your story has gotten boring, perhaps it’s time to ask yourself the “what if” question.

Try this, in the comment box, just brainstorm five what if questions as fast as you can. Try to to take the suggestion seriously, but do it fast. What will begin to happen is you’ll begin to dream, you’ll stop thinking of life as stagnant, and you’ll be reminded that life, for the most part, is what you make of it.

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  • Todd Bonner

    This has stirred things to life inside of me. Thank you.

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  • TheMadTurtle

    What if we took our 3 young boys to China to meet their new sister?
    What if I was offered a new job?
    What if my son needs speech therapy?
    What if I played my ukulele with the band on Sunday morning?
    What if my wife and I escaped to New York City for our 10 year anniversary?

  • amyrd

    What if every church in our church body within this city started a foster and adoption ministry?
    What if I could influence either or both of two Christian universities in this city to add classes or programs that prepare students to work with children from hard places?
    What if those programs included labs where foster and adoptive children and families could receive services/counseling/training?
    What if those programs and labs collaborated with the state and/or existing organizations to alleviate the brokeness of our overwhelmed foster care system?
    What if I started tap dancing again?

  • Jill Noffsinger Day

    What if the company I’ve started could replace my current income, allowing me to focus on just that business?
    What if I was successful at becoming healthy and changing my appearance?
    What if I met and married the love of my life?
    What if I could learn to run?
    What if I could live on nantucket island and write children’s books?

  • Jen

    I’m so inspired by the “What ifs” people have posted! Thanks for sharing!

    What if I stopped being who other people think I should be and started being myself?
    What if I transferred schools & moved to Colorado?
    What if I left grad school and pursued photography & writing instead?
    What if, instead of leaving, I went “all in” and invested my heart and soul in this season of grad school, right where I am?
    What if I started speaking my mind?
    What if I really believed I had a purpose to fulfill that’s bigger than me?
    What if I stopped being afraid of what other people think of me?

  • Meg

    What if I trained for a 5k?
    What if I started eating the way I know is good for me?
    What if I accepted I don’t have to become someone else to attract romantic love?
    What if I went on a true vacation for the first time in my adult life?

  • Jon Owen

    What if I led the charge of opening emergency homes for people rescued from trafficking in my state?
    What if I finally got my Master’s Degree?
    What if I started blogging seriously again?
    What if I worked for racial reconciliation in the deep south?
    What if I started speaking to churches and other groups?

  • Kelly Guyon

    What is I taught school in a foreign country? What if I got up really early and worked out every morning? What if I built my own house on the cheap and blogged about it ? What if I learned how to sail? What if I wasn’t afraid to tell others what I really thought?

  • wanda

    What if I bought recorders and taught how to play them to migrants.
    What if I started a farmers market in an open field by our church.
    What if we did a summer music series a t our church.
    What if people volunteered to work the nursery.
    What if I encouraged homeschooling moms.

  • John

    What if we actually built that space to create behind our house we feel the nudge to do?
    What if I actually commit to page the stories in my head?
    What if we actually see this foster care application process through?
    What if my wife leaves her stable corporate job to follow a passion at a non-profit?
    What if I risked venturing into opening my own therapeutic private practice?

  • Tina Brandau

    What if instead of playing safe, I learn more about story writing and make the commitment to write the story of inspiration that is my life?

    What if I stand on the same stage you did at Catalyst Cinci because of that same what if?

    What if I because of that platform, I could breathe hope and inspiration into others continually so they could fulfill their own what if’s?

    What if by fulfilling their what if’s we could change the world?

    What if as they all fulfill their what if, they would give all the glory to Jesus?

    I need to learn more about story writing TODAY!

  • bskough

    What if I stopped having a fixed mindset?

    What if I stopped living in fear?

    What if I attempted high levels of sommelier certification?

    What if I told her I really like her?

    What if I up and moved?

    Yours,

    B.S.

  • Douglas

    What if I created my own business?
    What if I spend more time in nature?
    What if I was able to rewrite my narrative?
    What if I tell the story of New Brunswick, Canada that it becomes the centre of universe?
    What if the world listens to me?

  • Becky Shampay

    What if I went on the disaster relief trip and loved it?
    What if I stopped worrying about things that don’t matter?
    What if I gave myself more freedom to go after what I want in life?
    What if I became more of a do-er like Bob Goff and Don?
    What if I stop thinking about having to pick a perfect career and just start moving massively towards what my heart wants to do in this world?

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