Less competition. More encouragement.
I have, unfortunately, viewed most of my life through the lens of competition.
I could blame it on growing up with a twin brother who is 6 inches taller and 40 pounds heavier with much broader shoulders. I could blame it on my love for sports or board games. I could blame it on countless plot lines and movies that stacked one side versus the other and glamorized the victor. But most likely, competition is just the default position of my heart.